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Each situation is different but what you can say with a high degree of certainty is that someone who’s just fallen out of their marriage, who’s still in reconciliation negotiations, who’s still very influenced by their spouse, and who has been separated for a long time ‘just because’, is going to bring pain into your life.
Same goes for someone who’s not over their divorce and has beliefs that affect their ability to be committed.
Some divorcees may feel bitter or resentful, especially if it wasn’t their decision to end the marriage, and the wounds of divorce can take a long time to heal.
While a divorcee may be ready to enter into another relationship, it can sometimes take much longer for them to feel ready to be married again, if ever. The best way to approach a relationship with a divorcee is to let things develop organically and avoid mentioning marriage until your relationship has built a really strong foundation.
Developing new relationships can be a challenge when divorce proceedings bring up both emotional issues and more practical considerations.We’re often scared (even if nothing has actually happened yet with a particular person) that we may be letting our last chance or even best chance saloon slip away.We may be imagining all sorts of problems that may or may not exist or we’re rationalising our own boundaries, values, and even prior experiences of being in one of these situations (so knowing that we may struggle with the emotional consequences) and are thinking along the lines of, ‘Well…I personally know people who have gotten together while one party was separated, and in one case the wife refused to sign so they had to wait for it to lapse and got married as soon as it did a few years later, and in the other instances where it worked out, there was no faffing about with the divorce, Future Faking etc.In the situations where it work, the separated party overestimated their readiness and actually, part of the reason they dated had been to avoid their feelings about the demise of their marriage.